Imagine… there REALLY is a gift that costs nothing, has zero environmental waste, AND will improve life for you and everyone around you.
Dig deep within you.That gift is there and ready to be shared, no gift-wrapping needed!
Quoted by St. Philo, AND Socrates, AND Plato also. They all want credit for this one.
Classic, brilliant, important – and yet – so easily forgotten.
One slight caveat – those battles with REAL bombs and missiles that cause great destruction – are still likely caused by a leader’s internal battle of fear (like Putin and Russia’s invasion.)
What’s the battle? I say we’re all fighting fear – a fear of losing our identity based on the situation we’re in. But, really does it matter? It’s far more important to realize that each of us is fighting a battle within that is hidden from view. Hidden behind the sparkly clothes, perfect hair, even all those social media followers.
Battles so many of us are fighting, especially in these post-Covid days in an increasingly distant world. Battles of loneliness, loss, insecurity, measuring up – oh, so many things to name and think about.
I hope it’s not just me who’s tried to join a conversation (and I’m at the table/in the circle!) and others just keep talking and not including me. It’s not fun.
For those of us who have been ignored, let’s remember to include others since we understand.
Again, you don’t need to know as you head to parties and events. just something to remember as you chat your way to the buffet. Especially if you notice that awkward person standing alone, hands full and perhaps smiling at you. Go say hi. Reach out. Who knows, that plate in her hand may be just what you need to fill a hunger in you. Not literally – really, more the conversation you have with this lone person may be the highlight of the event!
Unused to 2-way conversations with others?
You’re not alone.
Keep in mind we’re all fighting a battle!
Okay, so maybe these days, vaccinated or not isn’t the battle to fight.
Making eye contact is more important.
Ask questions!
Listen! To them and about them (not yourself)
Acknowledging someone and showing interest in someone is the greatest gift you can give.
Show kindness, curiosity and communicate for connection.
A 2-way conversation is as easy as middle school science and the scientific method. Well, unless science class is one battle you’ve fought.
Look beneath the surface and how someone ‘looks’. Be curious about what they are thinking. Ask questions. Ask for more information.
Let the gifting begin.
Kindness. Enjoy all you’ll receive and how your life will feel rich in this new year simply by asking questions and listening!
Happiest of holidays…